Thread:UniTato/@comment-19903036-20140316094633

Fiona. You asked me a very serious question. And I am giving you a serious answer.

There's nothing I need to understand more then hearing that someone has brought up suicide to someone. That is obvious. I don't care if you hate me for my advice. But it is something you need to do.

I don't know why you aren't taking it as seriously as you should. And I don't know why you are throwing your frustrations at your friends father. If you are saying those things to him then you are obviously furious about whats going on.

I get that her situation is fucked up. And I get that I will never fully understand what's because she isn't my friend. But you are. You need to direct it towards the right person. All of your emotions on how you feel need to be acknowledged, and you need to let your friend know how you feel about what she's going through. That it'll be okey or they're just assholes or whatever you're doing baby footing crap isn't going to cut it.

Suicide should always be treated seriously, and you need to let your friend KNOW that she means a lot to you, and what she's saying is hurting you.

If you don't show her that she means a lot to you then it just shows that she isn't as important to you as you thought. If that's the case then it isn't your burden to carry.

Suicide isn't something that I take lightly. No matter how it's presented.

Don't ask me such a serious question if you yourself aren't treating it as such. 